01.30.08

‘Arabic Slang: Replacing Qaaf with Ghayn

Posted in 'Arabic tagged , at 6:07 pm by Desert Diaries

As salaamu ‘alaikum wa rahmatullaahi wa barakaatuh. I thought I’d share a few words with you all In Shaa Allaah. The locals who tend to speak ‘Aammiyyah (slang) often replace the letter Qaaf (ق) with Ghayn (غ), (but not Ghayn with Qaaf).
  • Qareeb - Near. The locals say Ghareeb.
  • Qabla - Before. The locals say Ghabla.
  • Qalb - Heart. The locals say Ghalb.
  • Daqeeqah - Minute. The locals say Dagheeghah.
This is why it’s very important to try to understand the context of what being said, instead of just translating what’s being said literally word for word.
When we first moved here, my zawj was negotiating our fare with a taxi cab driver. After being given a high price, my zawj asked how it is that we’re being charged so much when our destination was so close (qareeb). The cab driver agreed that it was close (he said ghareeb) but it was Ramadhaan, and everyone charges more in Ramadhaan.
Now, at first I thought this was just a makhraj mistake of the driver. After living here for a little over a year, I realized that many, many people replace Qaaf with Ghayn. Why? Allaahu Aa’lam. I just wanted to share this just incase you were planning to come for Hijrah, Hajj, or ‘Umrah. In Shaa Allaah this will help you understand the people.
Haneefah

01.29.08

Life in Jeddah FAQ - When the Water Runs Dry Part 2.

Posted in Life in Jeddah tagged , at 9:04 am by Desert Diaries

الحمد لله رب العالمين وصلى الله وسلم على نبينا محمد وعلى آله وأصحابه ومن اهتدى بهديه إلى يوم الدين أما بعد
cleaning

Life in Jeddah FAQ - When the Water Runs Dry Part 2.
Our water still goes out from time to time, so I’ve learned how to make the best of it. How do I cope when the water is out and I must cook and clean? It’s not as hard as you think. Here’s a brief FAQ:
Q: How long do you go without water?
A: It depends. Sometimes the water is off for 3 or 4 days at a time. There have been times when the water was off for just a few hours. In some parts of Jeddah the water is off for weeks at a time, while in other parts the water is always running.  When the water is running, I store some of it in bottles and jugs to make my situation easier to handle when it does go out.
If you’re coming here for Hijrah, I’d suggest you find out which district you are going to live in before hand and ask others about the living conditions just to mentally prepare yourself. Some employers already have furnished apartments ready for their employees, so there’s a great chance that you’ll be able to find out where you’ll be living In Shaa Allaah.
When we first moved in, there were large jugs and tons of empty soda bottles all over the place. We soon realized that these bottles and jugs were for storing water. When the air starts to turn a bit foul, I know that the water will soon be off. It’s like a warning sign so to speak.
Q: How do you clean without running water?
Normally I don’t unless I absolutely have to. If I must, then I take one 2.25 liter bottle of bottled faucet water and pour it into a large pot, boil it, then pour the water into an extra-extra large bowl. I then add another 2.25 liters of room temperature water to the hot water just to make it cool enough for me to put my hands in to wash the dishes.
I have a double sink, so I wash in one and rinse in the other. To rinse the dishes, I use just 2.25 liters of water and try to sprinkle it evenly over the soapy dishes. I then use that same water to wipe down the stove and countertops. After the dishes are done, I leave the water in the bowl so to make tomorrow’s dishes easier to clean…kind of like a pre-soak.
To sum it up, you can wash and rinse the dishes with 3 large soda bottles of water.
Q: How do you cook without running water?
This is not a major problem per se. I don’t actually “cook” with water from the faucet anyway. I do use it to wash/rinse my food (like fruits and veggies). I do the actual cooking with spring water. We order about 4 gallons from Al Bardooni or Al ‘Ayn water company. The salesman will come to our door maybe once or twice a week to see if we need more. You can buy a stack of coupons from them in advance, then give them a coupon for every jug you need thereafter. When the water is off it just slows me down but it doesn’t bring everything to a halt.
Please do not use the faucet water for cooking, not even to boil your food or you will get sick with infectious diarrhea commonly known as “Hajji Pooh.” No one (unless they’re truly in despair and have no other choice) drinks or cooks with the faucet water. Boiling the faucet water will not clean it to the point where you’ll be able to drink it….you will still get sick, just not as sick.
Alhamdulillaah, you will see spring water machines in residential areas. Anyone can go and take as much as they need for free. I don’t see anyone using these except the destitute, Allaahu Aa’lam.
Q: What about the laundry?
I have a twin tub machine. Looking at it, one would think that it was just a plastic contraption waiting to break down. Not so, Maa Shaa Allaah! These little twin tub washing machines are strong. I actually like them more than the contemporary washing machines. This type of machine generally hooks up to the faucet, however it runs just fine without it. You take several buckets of water and pour it into the machine add detergent and that’s it. When you want to rinse, just take the draining hose and put it into the drain in your kitchen or bathroom floor, then pour clean water onto the clothes and let them swish around a bit more to make sure all the laundry detergent is gone, then put the clothing into the spin tub.
The twin tub machine requires more hands on work, but I love how strong it is and how fast I can get my laundry done. One morning my zawj did not have a clean thawb for work. I threw one in the twin tub machine to wash for 3 minutes, rinsed it for 2, then ironed it dry in about 5 minutes. The rinse cycle in the twin tub machine is very good….the thawb was nearly dry when I took it out. The twin tub is better than the automatic machines for situations like mine. You can not do laundry at all with the automatic machine if your water is off. When I am sick or pressed for time, I use my automatic washer.
Mopping: Mopping is very easy. I dump a bucket of water on the floor then squeegee (sp?) it all down the drain. If the water is off and I know that I need to mop, I save the water used to bleach my white clothing in the twin tub washer, then drain the washer and allow all the water to gush out all over the floor…then I squeegee it down the drain. I save water this way. Normally my bleach water is clean enough to use twice. {Do what you gotta do ….you know.}
It’s a little bit harder to clean the bathroom when the water is off because I need to scrub and rinse everything. When the water is on, cleaning it is very easy. Just scrub, then take the hose (already installed in the bathrooms here) and spray it down. If you open your bathroom window, everything will dry on its own in no time due to the heat….you don’t have to squeegee the bathroom if you don’t want to Alhamdulillaah.
Flushing the Toilet: Yes, you can still flush when the water is off, just take about 3 soda bottles of water and pour it in the back (not in the actual toilet - but the area where the lil chain is), then flush.  Some homes have flat toilets (like holes in the floor covered with porcelain)…I have no idea how the people cope with these when the water is off. I think this is why Bukhoor (an incense) is a major seller in the market places.
Istinjaa: Na’am. You can buy spray or squeeze bottles from the Riyaalayn store. These little bottles are good for travel too. They fit nicely in hand or diaper bags.
In Shaa Allaah I’ll share something from Shaykh Bazmool and Shaykh ‘Ubaid regarding Istijmaar  and an excerpt from Shaykh Fawzaan (hafithahumullaah)  just in case there’s a situation when there’s no water available at all.  These rulings are important for us to know.
Water Tanks: The custodian for our building will go from door to door collecting money to fill the water tanks. This will cost an equivalent $7 USD depending on how many people in the building are home at that time. If the water comes from the water truck, it just might have a putrid smell or it may even be yellow, so let it run a bit before using it….and again never drink the faucet water even if it comes from the water truck.
Govt. Water: The govt. will send water too alhamdulillaah. You can tell the govt. water from the tank water by the pressure. The govt. water has light pressure, the tank water has normal pressure.  This water is said to be 100% oure (see the Q/A below). You can’t always tell the govt. water from the water brought here by the trucks. I personally do not drink either one (again this is my personal preference).
Water Bills: We don’t really have those, at least not in my building. You pay a small fee when it goes out.
In Shaa Allaah we’ll discuss rent, food bills, etc. in another post.
Part 1: When the Water Runs Dry…
Q/A on Foul Smelling Water - Muhammad al Malikee
Haneefah

01.23.08

Remedies of the Locals: Tarthuth the Desert Thumb

Posted in Girls Only, Herbs tagged , , , , , , at 2:50 am by Desert Diaries

As salaamu ‘alaikum wa rahmatullaahi wa barakaatuh. The author of this article has an interesting way of telling a story. It’s long so I’ll share it in parts In Shaa Allaah. Enjoy!
Haneefah


The Treasure of Tarthuth

Written by Robert W. Lebling Jr.

Desert Thumb HerbIt is early spring in the Dahna, Saudi Arabia’s northeastern sand desert. The winter rains have been over for several weeks, leaving a legacy of green foliage that spots the dunes and valleys—scattered arta shrubs, patches of grasses, low saltbushes. The clumps of vegetation provide forage for the occasional flocks of sheep and goats and for small herds of camels.Where there is livestock, there is always a person to tend the animals, keep them safe and prevent them from straying. On the slope of a dune, a Saudi youth named Ahmad settles down beside a stand of bushes and trains his eye on his father’s camels, about 100 meters off, grazing on the spring bounty. He is particularly watchful of the young ones. It has been a long morning, and he now waits for the return of his brother’s white pickup truck. Suddenly a rare flash of dark red color catches his eye. Down under the saltbushes to his left, he spies three little dark red club-like shapes poking up from the sand. Tarthuth! Ahmad is hungry and thirsty, and nature has furnished him with one of its tastiest snacks. Taking his pocketknife, he digs into the sand at the base of one of the stalks and cuts it off at the root. The pungent smell brings a smile to his face. Ahmad cuts away the reddish skin—tightly covered with tiny button flowers—and exposes the succulent white flesh beneath. He slices off a wet piece and pops it into his mouth. It’s sweet and juicy, refreshing, like ripe fruit. He chews contentedly.
Tarthuth emerges from the sands only for a brief period each year, following the rains of winter. After he has finished his snack, he cuts off the remaining red clubs to take back to his family.

The people of the desert have been harvesting tarthuth like this for thousands of years. It has pleased the palates of passing Bedouins and their camels, filled grocers’ baskets in local markets and served as survival food in times of dire famine. It is traditionally known for a wide range of medicinal properties as well—properties now being studied seriously by researchers in the Middle East.

Tarthuth today is barely known outside the region, though it was once harvested around the Mediterranean and was bestowed as a special gift on European royalty in the 16th century. In those days it was known to Arabs and Europeans alike as a wonder drug—a heritage largely forgotten in the rush of modern medicine. But things may be changing. Now, as pharmaceutical companies and medical researchers take a closer look at traditional remedies derived from plants and herbs, tarthuth may once again have an opportunity to rise to prominence.

Tarthuth (pronounced tar-thooth) is the popular Arabic name for the parasitic plant Cyno-morium coccineum. Medieval Europeans called it fungus melitensis—”Maltese mushroom” or “Malta fungus,” names by which it is still known today. Sometimes it’s called “desert thumb” or “red thumb.” The plant is found growing—usually ignored nowadays—in a wide swath that extends from southern Portugal and Spain across the Mediterranean region, including North Africa. Tarthuth even pokes above the remote sands of the Sahara: Botanists have identified it as far south as the central Hoggar range of Southern Algeria. It latches onto salt-loving bushes on Mediterranean islands like Ibiza, Sicily and, of course, Malta. Its range passes through the Levant to the northern and eastern regions of the Arabian Peninsula and vaults across the Gulf into Iran—and perhaps beyond.

Well known in Saudi Arabia—its burgundy spikes emerged this year in late January near the colossal Ghawar oil field and at Lake Lanhardt in Dhahran—tarthuth also makes its home in Kuwait, Bahrain, Qatar, the United Arab Emirates and Oman. In February 1999, Canadian explorer Jamie Clarke spotted the bright red flowering stems growing on a rocky shelf nearly five meters (16′) up a cliff wall in Wadi Ghadun, in Oman’s southern province of Dhofar. “Traditionally the Bedu…ate it during long camel caravans across the Empty Quarter,” Clarke reports in his book Everest to Arabia. “The entire plant is only ten inches [25 cm] high and has an awkward appeal, much like a mushroom’s…. Camels love to eat it and I gather this particular plant has been spared that fate by its lofty perch. In a tropical forest it would go unnoticed. Here, its vivid colour and unique character make it stand out against the starkly barren wadi cliff.”

Tarthuth is a highly specialized parasite with some fungus-like properties. It grows underground for most of the year, feeding on the roots of saltbushes and other salt-tolerant plants. When the winter rains come, its extensive root system shoots fleshy red stems up through the sand and into the open air. The plant has no green color because it’s a parasite and thus needs no chlorophyll to feed itself.

The leafless red stems or spikes, fully grown, range in height from about 15 to 30 centimeters (6-12″). The spikes have tiny scarlet flowers so small that they can hardly be seen individually. Tightly packed and scale-like, they look somewhat like coarse fur. Pollinated by flies attracted by the plant’s sweetish, somewhat cabbage-like aroma, the flowers eventually wither and the spike turns black.

When the January and February rains are good, the young fleshy stems of tarthuth can be “sweet tasting and edible raw, with a pleasant crisp, succulent texture,” reports a botanist in his Flora of Eastern Saudi Arabia. The flesh is apple-like, with an astringent quality that freshens the mouth. Just picked, tarthuth can be very sweet; left to sit for a few days, it can be somewhat bitter on first taste, but stays tartly refreshing. The Bedouins clean the just-picked spikes, peel off the outer skin and eat the flavorful white interior. The mature, blackened spikes are sometimes ground and made into a sweetened infusion used hot or cold to treat colic and stomach ulcers.

Botanist James Duke cites tarthuth’s traditional use as a medicinal tea in Qatar. Botanist Loutfi Boulos says North African medical tradition regards the entire plant as an “aphrodisiac, spermatopoietic, tonic, [and] astringent.” In traditional medicine, it is mixed with butter and consumed to treat obstructions of the bile duct. Maltese mushroom has a close relative in the East Asia, C. songaricum or suo yang, whose brownish spikes have long been regarded as an effective medicinal agent in Chinese medicine, used to treat kidney problems, intestinal ailments and impotence. Recent studies in China show that Cynomorium, like green tea, has “very strong antioxidant effects.”

As recently as the 1920’s, villagers from the Saudi coastal oasis of Qatif would head into the desert in early spring and return with their donkeys loaded with sacks of tarthuth for sale in the local suqs, or markets, Mandaville notes. The plants are still a popular treat for Bedouins and other desert travelers, according to wellsite inspector and desert expert Geraiyan M. Al-Hajri. He says tarthuth can be found in springtime in the suqs of al-Hasa in the kingdom’s Eastern Province. In the Maghrib, Arab North Africa, the dried and pulverized plant is used as a spice or condiment with meat dishes.

The red pigment in the plants provides another benefit: It has been used as an effective fabric dye by the women of at least one Arabian tribe, the Manasir, many of whom now live in the United Arab Emirates. The dye produces a rich, colorfast crimson hue known as dami or “blood-red.”

Maltese mushroom’s use as both foodstuff and medicine goes back thousands of years. Arab physicians of the Middle Ages considered tarthuth “the treasure of drugs” because it had a wealth of traditional therapeutic uses, particularly as a remedy for blood disorders, digestive ailments and reproductive problems, including impotence and infertility.

An early philosopher of the Arabs compiled a medical formulary, or aqrabadhin, that mentions tarthuth as the main ingredient of a salve used to relieve acute itching caused by foreign matter under the skin. An influential Islamic physician prescribed tarthuth as a remedy for hemorrhoids as well as for nasal and uterine bleeding.

To be continued.

01.22.08

Updated: Natural “Girly” Remedies…Very Interesting!

Posted in Girls Only, Herbs tagged , , at 12:41 am by Desert Diaries

girly curesAs salaamu ‘alaikum wa rahmatullaahi wa barakaatuh. The following info was given to me from sister Fatimah in Indonesia. Maa Shaa Allaah the remedies are interesting..smiles. She gave me permission to share with you, jazaahallaahu khairaan. Enjoy!
Haneefah


Wassalammu’alaikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakaatuh,

Alhamdulillah I know some of the Indonesian traditional herbs for women after having baby or to make women private firm hehehehehe. It’s like generation to generation. These herbs have been used for centuries:

This is for single or married women. After having baby is good or before wedding (but for a single better not too much because it will make women hard to have a baby).

Betel leaf is known very well in Asia continent starting from India to south East Asia. Betel leaf is good to wash or steam women’s private; you can drink it or use it to wash your private.

For drink:

1.     5 or 6 betel leafs

2.     2cm cinnamon (not powder)

3.     5 or 6 coriander (not powder)

4.     5 or 6 peppercorns

5.     3 glass of water

Boil the entire herb (do not use aluminum pan) from 3 glass water into 1 glass leave. Drink it when it’s warm.

For washing women private or steam:

1.     10 betel leafs

2.     plastic jar

3.     small plastic chair with hole in the middle

Boiled the betel leafs; you can use it to wash your private when the water little bit warm or if you want to use it as steamer water. Place the betel leaf water into plastic jar and put your small plastic chair and your can sit on your chair (cover your body with sarong for better result). You can feel the difference after that insha Allah.

After labors you can use the above and for better result try this herb:

1.     5 betel leaf

2.     100gram curcuma xanthorriza

3.     75gram curcuma longa linn

4.     400gram tumeric

5.     50gram boesenbergia pandurata (finger root)

6.     10grm dried tamarind

7.     Blender machines

8.     sieves

9.     salt (just little of half tea spoon)

10. 800ml water

11.honey

12.lime fruit

Blender herbs from number 1- 6. When finishes add with water and salt, sieves the herb juices .Drink it with honey and fresh lime. You can store the herbs juices in the refrigerator. But u needs to boil it first.

To add your breast milk volume your can boiled 20gm of Boesenberigia pandurata with 2 glass of water. Boiled until the water only 1 glass leave.

Barakallahu feeki…….Fatimah

Note: herb recipes no 3 can make your fat body after having labor to the normal size very quick. Proven by my family n friends. Especially my friend after having a baby and consumed the above herb juices her body more firm.


Subhana Allah here Karkade known as bunga sepatu, I never knew of its has many benefits, we just know the leafs and flowers good for hair, to make hair thick and dark. We mix it with fresh coconut milk and tamarind. Sis if you like to scrub your skin you can try this, we called it boreh (people know this scrub as Balinese boreh) it is believe to warm the body, relieve arching joints as well as soothe sore muscles also can make your skin smooth.

Clove, cinnamon, rice powder, ginger essential oil if you don’t have ginger essential oil you can use olive oil.

300gr rice powder (soaked the rice over night, drained), then crushed the drained rice together with a table spoon of clove and cinnamon.

Relax your body by adding 3 spoonfuls of boreh powder, with ginger essential oil or olive oil mix with warm water until it becomes a paste. Apply to skin and enjoy its deep warming heat, you may wrap yourself in old sheet or sarong to intensify the warmth. Leave on for 10 minutes and scrub it gently until all boreh is clean from your skin then rinse of with warm water.

If you want more Indonesian traditional body scrub I will share it with you insha Allah.

Wassalammu’alaikum……..Fatimah

Note: if you want to make it more warm add little more clove and cinnamon.

01.18.08

Part 1: Life in Jeddah FAQ

Posted in Life in Jeddah tagged at 12:52 am by Desert Diaries

Jeddah MapAs salaamu ‘alaikum wa rahmatullaahi wa barakaatuh. I’m often asked the same questions over and over again about life in Jeddah. In Shaa Allaah you will find some benefit in my replies. I will add to this compilation soon bi ihdnillaah. Please advise me if I have some misinformation here.
Haneefah

Adjusting: Adjusting was not a problem for me, my zawj or my daughter. Maybe because we wanted to come here so bad, we basically “fell in line with the locals.” My daughter was only one and a half when we made hijrah, so she just went with the flow. I absolutely love the liftstyle here Tabaarakallaah. I would advise you to learn the laws, and customs of the people before coming as it will help you to adjust and avoid trouble.

School: I had a hard time at first finding the right school for me. I needed a school with relatively early hours and short days to fit my daily schedule. After several months of looking, visiting this shcool and that school, trying out this tutor and that tutor, going back and forth, “Daarul Haafithaat al ‘Ishroon” is the school I decided to attend. The classes for sisters are only 4 days a week, 3 hours per day from Sat. - Tues. There are special Tafseer classes on Wed., for those who wish to attend. Adapting to this was not hard at all Alhamdulillaah.

Enrollment:  Yes the enrollment at my school is fairly easy. No major paperwork, the tuition is cheap, no waiting list. They’ll allow you to pay as you go if you need time to get the money togehter.

Friendly Classmates:  Very much so Alhamdulillaah. We see and help each other in and outside of class. Most of us (teachers and students) attend the same masjid and sit together at the varouis lectures and conferences. We visit each other’s homes as well.
 


Women Uncovering in School, Gatherings & the Like: Yes, for the most part, once we are at school, in each other’s homes, etc., we remove our ‘abaa-a. I never really understood why until coming here. There are a few reasons:
1. The overgarment/outer-cloak is just that - an “outer” cloak to be worn over the clothing. One sister I asked about it had a nice explanation. Some women in the West look at their ‘abaa-a as if it were their actual “clothing,” so they wear it as such. The women here look at it as if it were a “coat,” so they were it as such. Would you wear a “coat” in the house? No. So, they take their “coats” off  and hang them on coat racks when they get to where they’re going if no men are present.
2. It is HOT here. Really akhawaat, you will not want to wear your ‘abaa-a once you get to where you are going. Trust me, the first thing you’ll want to do when you get inside is to remove those extra layers of sweaty clothing.
3. After dragging your ‘abaa-a through these bedawi streets, you will NOT want to wear them once you get to where you’re going. Some of the streets look like garbage dump sites and the odor will make you want to vomit, so when your clothes drag over all that, you are nothing short of grossed out and can’t wait to take them off. Yes the merits of dragging the ‘abaa-a are known, but there are some things lying on the ground that you just don’t want touching your clothing….ok my skin is crawling now…next topic!

Food: You can find all the food you like from the West here in Jeddah, even yummy Baskin Robbins. I basically cook the same meals that I prepared in the West like mashed potatoes, veggies and meatloaf, fried chicken, spaghetti, etc. Every now and then I’ll try something different, or we’ll order take out. We love to eat the food of the people, Saudis and non Saudis alike. The food is relatively cheap and very delicious. You’ll pay high prices at Western restaureants like Apple Bees. Fast food chains are kind of cheap. All the things that we are used to are basically available.

Socializing: I don’t socialize too much. When I do go out, I find the sisters are generally warm and welcoming. There’s lots to do here, you won’t get bored In Shaa Allaah.

‘Arabic: I studied some before making Hijrah. I’ve been here a little over a year and Alhamdulillaah my speaking and understanding has improved. I’ve learned that being shy of making mistakes does not help, it holds you back. My advice is to just try, try, try. Conversate as much as you can whenever you can. I have several books that I study from and they help me with everyday situations. The Madeenah books are good, but they don’t give you want you need first hand. I also listen to native speakers and observe their actions. I also have friends that are either ‘Arab or fluent in the language, so we conversate. When I learn a new word I look up other ways to say it in ‘Arabic. This broadens the vocabulary and has helped me tremendously. I understand the lessons of the scholars more because of this study tactic. Study Tafseer and Ahaadeeth, this will broaden your vocab as well. You can use lots of verses from the Quraan as well as statements from ahaadeeth in your everyday speech.
I read children’s ‘Arabic books with my daughter. I can’t tell you how my vocab has increased because of her books, Tabaarakallaah. My daughter is a busy body, so I have to constantly speak to her (do this, don’t do that, don’t touch that, it’s time for a bath, etc). Sometimes I realize (in mid sentence) that I don’t know a word, so I look it up immediately or jot it down so I won’t forget to look it up when I have free time. Once you learn a word in ‘Arabic, use it instead of Eng (even if the majority of your sentence is in Eng). I am not fluent in the language, but I’m working on getting there In Shaa Allaah. I hope these tips help.


Maids & Drivers: They come a dime a dozen. If you really need one, then khair, they aren’t hard to find and won’t cost you that much.
So long as your mahram is with you, you should not have a problem when it comes to a driver.

Toilet Paper: Na’am we have tp..lol. 16 pack combos, 2 ply, Charmin, whatever you need In Shaa Allaah. Not every facility will have it. So, if tp is a must for you I’d suggest you carry some with you at all times.

Feminine Hygenie Products: Yes, we have those too. Click here: Girls Only

Haircare Products: Na’am. There’s some info under the girls only link.

Treatment of Women: Women are treated like gems for the most part. There are some people here with diseased hearts and will do some foul things though. We trust Allaah, keep to our du’aa and In Shaa Allaah we’ll be ok. Everything is qadarullaah.

Are we completely restricted from going out?: Not at all. The women here spoiled..really. There are tons of women only facilities and many positive things for us to do. In Shaa Allaah I’ll mention a few places another time.


Is it not safe there? There’s crime everywhere you go but Saudi is overall safe and secure. You can see, and feel the peace here. No matter where you live, it is better to go out with your hubby or in a group. There are men called the Hayaa here. They patrol the streets in an effort to stop immoral crimes. The regular police are riding around all the time too. Really…I’ve never felt more at peace or had a real sense of security until I came here. Honestly, the police will more than likely stop you and ask for your iqaamah or passport before someone approaches you to harm you. To reiterate, yes there’s crime here, but it’s safer here than in the West in my humble opinion.

Witchcraft: Unfortunately some people do practice witchcraft. The police have been arresting magicians a lot lately. Most people who go to them for “help” are the ones who are sick and want to be cured by any means, even if it is haraam. I don’t know anyone who has been a victim of a spell Alhamdulillaah, but it does happen in the East. Don’t allow this to scare you. Nothing happens except by Allaah’s leave. Just safeguard yourself as much as possible (3 quls, ayatul Kursi, etc).

Can a woman have her own bank account? Let me get back to you with exact details.

Do you have ATM machines? Yes. There are many, many ATMs. You will not have a problem finding one here in Jeddah. - Wachovia Bank Users: If you plan to move to/visit KSA, call Wachovia and let them know first. They’ll authorize international usage of your card. This will help you avoid “security issues.” Also, make sure your card has the PLUS logo on the back or it may not work at the ATMs here. Alhamdulillaah the transaction fees are not that high.  In the beginning I didn’t do any of these things and I could not get my money from the ATM.

Classes in Jeddah?

Fridays: Shaykh Muhammad al Malikee’s classes are held on the residential Camp KAIA (King ‘Abdul ‘Azeez Int. Airport) at Masjid Baraa bin Malik. So long as you have the proper paper work you shouldn’t have a problem getting pass security.
The khutbah (in ‘Arabic first) begins at 12:30 - please don’t etch this time in stone as it is estimated. The Shaykh then translates his own khutbah into Eng., then gives a class from the book Ad Duroos al Muhimmah Li ‘Aammatil Ummah (just in Eng.) followed by Q/A on the topic if anyone has a question. After the class, food is served.  I was told that the Shaykh gives other duroos in his Masjid during the week in ‘Arabic, but I don’t have a schedule for them. I heard they were after ‘Asr. Have your zawj confirm with the Shaykh In Shaa Allaah.
Friday Nights: Shaykh Abu ‘Aasim ‘Abdullaah al Ghamidee gives a dars on Shaykh ‘Uthaymeen’s Exp. of al ‘Aqeedatul Waasitiyyah. This class takes place after ‘Ishaa. I am not sure what time the adhaan is…maybe it’s around 7:40 PM. I will check and get back to you. Location - Hayy as Safaa - Masjid al Furqaan (behind Sooq al Marjaan - some call it Sooq As Surrayn others say As Sireen). - In this same masjid are classes on Fri. after ‘Asr for brothers to learn Quraan. Allaahu Aa’lam if there are classes for sisters. I did not hear the Shaykh mention the women.
Sat. Nights: In the same masjid (al Furqaan), Shaykh Fu’aad al Amree teaches Manaarus Sabeel and another book after ‘Ishaa.
The sisters have private classes with Shaykh al Ghamidee 2x’s a week I believe via telelink. My private tutor is a student of his, so I’ll ask her for the schedule. I believe the sisters gather in a house for this, but those who’d like to call in can do so. He was supposed to start sisters only classes on Pal Talk…I’ll ask about them and get back to you In Shaa Allaah.
On the last Thursday of every month Shaykh Muhammad al Madkhalee comes to Jeddah - Hayy al Jaami’ah at Masjid Ameerah al Hissah. He teaches from Maghrib to a little after ‘Ishaa. His classes are in ‘Arabic only.

01.17.08

Live in Jeddah: Shaykh ‘Umar as Somaalee

Posted in What's Going on in the Gulf? at 12:50 pm by Desert Diaries

As salaamu ‘alaikum wa rahmatullaahi wa barakaatuh akhawaat. Shaykh ‘Umar as Somaalee (hafithahullaah) will be live in Jeddah Friday at Masjid Baraa bin Malik on the residential Camp KAIA. The khutbah starts around 12:20/12:30. I don’t have all the details, so In Shaa Allaah have your zawj contact Shaykh Muhammad (hafithahullaah).
Haneefah
KSA

01.16.08

Benefits of Clove Oil

Posted in Herbs tagged at 7:36 am by Desert Diaries

Health Benefits of Clove Oil
   
The health benefits of clove oil can be attributed to its antimicrobial, antifungal, antiseptic, antiviral, aphrodisiac and stimulating properties. The oil is used for treating a variety of health disorders including toothaches, indigestion, cough, asthma, headache, stress and blood impurities.

Clove is an evergreen tree, which produces a flower bud that has numerous medicinal properties. It is often referred as clove bud. Clove bud has a shaft and a head and hence it has the Latin name clavus meaning nail. Clove was extensively used in the ancient Indian and Chinese civilizations and it spread to other parts of the world, including Europe, during the seventh and eight centuries.

Clove is rich in minerals such as calcium, hydrochloric acid, iron, phosphorus, sodium, potassium, and vitamin A and vitamin C. The health benefits of clove oil include the following:

  • Dental Care: The most prominent use of clove oil is in dental care. The germicidal properties of the oil make it very effective for relieving dental pain, tooth ache, sore gums and mouth ulcers. Clove oil contains the compound eugenol, which has been used in dentistry since numerous years. Gargles with diluted clove oil help in easing the throat. The characteristic smell of clove oil helps removing bad breath. As a result, clove oil is added to numerous dental products and medications, including, mouth washes, and tooth pastes. Dentists also mix clove oil with zinc oxide and prepare a white filling material as a temporary alternative to root canal.
  • Infections: Due to its antiseptic properties, clove oil is useful for wound, cuts, scabies, athlete’s foot, fungal infections, bruises, prickly heat, scabies, etc. It can also be used insect bites and stings. Clove oil is very strong in nature and hence should be used in diluted form. Further, it should not be used on sensitive skin.
  • Skin Care: Clove oil is often recommended for skin care, especially to acne patients.
  • Stress: Clove oil is aphrodisiac in nature and hence serves as an excellent stress reliever. It has a stimulating effect on the mind and removes mental exhaustion and fatigue. When taken internally, in appropriate amounts, it refreshes the mind. Clove oil also induces sleep and is helpful to insomnia patients. It is useful for treating mental problems such as loss of memory, depression and anxiety.
  • Headache: Clove oil when mixed with salt, and applied on the forehead, gives a cooling effect and helps in getting relief from headache.
  • Respiratory Problems: Clove oil has a cooling and anti inflammatory effect, and thereby clears the nasal passage. This expectorant is useful in various respiratory disorders including coughs, colds, bronchitis, asthma, sinusitis, and tuberculosis. Chewing a clove bud eases sore throats.
  • Earache: A mixture of warm clove oil and sesame oil is a good remedy for earaches.
  • Indigestion: Clove oil is effective in stomach related problems such as hiccups, indigestion, motion sickness, and flatulence. Hence, clove one of the important spices added in Indian dishes.
  • Nausea: Clove oil is helpful in case of nausea and vomiting and is often used for pregnancy related vomiting.
  • Blood Circulation: Clove oil is increases your body metabolism by increasing blood circulation and reducing body temperature.
  • Blood Purification: Clove oil also helps in purifying the blood.
  • Diabetes: Along with blood purification, clove oil also helps in controlling the blood sugar levels and hence is useful to diabetics.
  • Immune System: Both clove and clove oil are useful for boosting the immune system. Its antiviral properties and ability to purify blood increases your resistance to diseases.
  • Premature Ejaculation: Research has indicated that clove can be useful for treating premature ejaculation. Further research needs to be carried out to confirm these results.
  • Cholera: It is believed that clove oil is useful for treating cholera.
  • Sty: Clove and clove oil is a very effective home remedy for treating sty. Sty is an inflammation on the eyelash and is a very irritating condition. Sty is not only painful, but also causes difficulty in the proper functioning of the eye.

Other benefits of clove oil include the following:

  • Cosmetics: Clove oil is often added in cosmetic creams and lotions. It is a good massage oil providing relief from pain and stress.
  • Clove Flavoring Agent: Along with its digestive properties, clove oil is added in food items due to its flavor. It is added in many Indian dishes, pickles, sauce, spice cakes, etc.
  • Soaps: Due to the characteristic aroma, soothing effect and antiseptic properties, clove oil is added in making soaps.
  • Perfumes: Clove oil is also used in making perfumes.

Many people believe that clove oil is useful in preventing and treating cancer, however the American Cancer Society clearly mentions that there is no scientific evidence on the curative properties of clove oil. It is also claimed by many that clove oil is useful in treating viral hepatitis.

One should be careful while using clove oil. Clove oil is strong in nature and hence should be diluted before application.

Clove oil blends well with many essential oils including basil essential oil, rosemary essential oil, rose oil, cinnamon essential oil, grapefruit essential oil, lemon essential oil, nutmeg essential oil, peppermint essential oil, orange essential oil, lavender essential oil, germanium essential oil, etc.

http://www.organicfacts.net/organic-oils/natural-essential-oils/health-benefits-of-clove-oil.html

01.11.08

Sisterly Advice Regarding Ummul Quraa University

Posted in 'Arabic, FYI, Girls Only, Seeking Knowledge tagged , at 8:23 am by Desert Diaries

As salaamu ‘alaikum wa rahmatullaahi wa barakaatuh. I’ve sought permission to share some sister to sister advice concerning Ummul Quraa University. We’d like to stress that our sister in the deen is not a representative for the university. Her answers are based off of what she knows as a current student. Her answers were not verified by any faculty member of the school. Ummul Quraa’s rules and regulations are subject to change.  May Allaah bless her and her family in their studies and allow them to be a benefit to the Ummah, aameen.